Wednesday, July 4, 2012

Why do women compare guys to accessories?


So when you buy that new Michael Kors watch are you wishing and hoping that your date was just as clean and polished or are you hoping that they are on time. When you wear those cute ballet flats are you wishing that your guy walks in your shoes for day or two? Or are you wishing that your guy was just like one of your favorite accessories?

When we compare guys to our accessories we expect so much out of them. We expect them to hold us the right way just like our favorite belt holds around our waist, we expect them to be on time just like our new watch that goes perfect with everything, and we also expect them to keep their baggage stored away just like we keep everything in that favorite handbag. No guy is perfect and no accessory is perfect but when you try to compare them both you may be left with nothing at all.

In my personal opinion I feel that most women compare their guy to accessories because they want that guy to be perfect, they want that guy to be able to be true to them, and they also want that guy to never do them wrong. Guy's can't do all those things that your accessories do for you unless he wants too. You can have pieces in your accessories that won't last forever, but sometimes true love can last forever.

So when you know that your guy can't live up to your accessories what do you do? Do you stick it out? Do you keep buying that one accessory that you know you want him to be like? Or do you let your accessory be an accessory and your guy be a guy?

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