Playing on the Side

What exactly are the official rules of playing on the side or what our generation may say the side chick/male? Is it making sure that you don't call him or her after a certain hour; is it making sure you know and respect your role; or knowing that you won't be the number one priority?

Being on the sideline is never a good option. When you are on the side you get all the bad deals; lack of respect and you don't even get recognize. There are so many women and even men that have played these roles all their lives and have settle for what they think is right.

Does being on the side make you self-conscious? Does it lack self-respect? The main question is Does being on the side make you happy?

Playing that role can get old and it can lose its expiration date. Are you going to get tired of only getting half of that person, are you going to get tired of calling around a certain hour, or are you going to get tired of meeting up at places that people won't go too.

Love is all over the world and in order to find that love people can't just settle for anything. When you settle for playing that role of being on the side you will always get everything on the side. No matter how people may think that it is right for them to be playing the side. In the end the only thing that is going to change is the way your heart hurts.

So to all the people that may be playing that role stop asking yourself these questions: Why do I like him? Why do I like her? Why do I think I love him or her? Why is the sex so good? Why is he with her? Why is she with him?