Thursday, January 26, 2017

Women to the Rescue!!!!




As the days got closer to the inauguration of our new President Elect many Americans across the nation feared what may come in the next four years.  We were unsure if there would be a nuclear war, LGBT couples feared their rights would be taken away, women were unsure if they would still have the right to choose what happens to there bodies and many Latino families worried about loved ones being deported.
  With all of this into play what do we do as Americans to get our voices heard?  Since going to the election polls weren’t enough; we can rally, protest; write and call our local congressman and officials to express how we feel, or we can all unite as one.  Throughout the week my friends and I discussed this topic in our normal group chat. The highlight of our discussion centered around the upcoming event for Saturday January 21, 2017, the Women’s March on Washington. We all voiced interest in attending and planned to go together.  While making our plans, we came across different articles expressing different views towards the March. I remember sending an article from Elle, which discussed how many white women were behind the planning and purpose of the March.  The article went on to explain their reasoning for the march on Washington.  After a couple of days went by one of my friends shared an article in the chat posted by a young lady, named Jamilah Lemieux. Jamilah writes for Colorlines.com. She stated in her article that she would not be attending the march for numerous reasons, some of which included the lack of sisterhood when it came to the election, how she learned that 53% of white women voted for Trump, and that a majority of the women marching would be white women. Her article expressed her opinion about the name of the march.    She concluded that the name “Women’s March on Washington” was derived from the 1995 and 1997 Million Mom March and Million Woman March organized by Minister Louis Farrakhan.  These two events were organized Marches attended in majority by black women with no support from white women. Her article went on to state that the marches organized by Minister Louis Farrakhan was being co-opted and erased by clueless white women that went out and voted for Trump.  Her article made some very valid points. After reading this article, did it change my mind?  Yes it did. It changed most of our minds about attending. Homegirl was stating some real facts and she was speaking to us.  I share the article with my mother.  She read the article and the response I received from her change my mindset completely about attending.   My mom commented, “That is Jamilah’s opinion, she is entitled to it. But when I march on Saturday I am marching for my daughter, sister, nieces, and mother and for all women rights regardless of color.” Back in the group chat each one of us shared our different views on what the article expressed and we thought to ourselves lets continue with our plan to march on Saturday. Remembering the struggles black women have had for years and as young black women we can also let our voices be heard.  So, the Women’s March on Washington was still on our calendar. The day arrives for the march; we had our signs and were ready. We made sure we dressed in layers. The train was packed, with many different generations of women. They had their pink pussy hats on and they were excited. You could feel the excitement in the air when we got off at Judiciary Square. Women and men everywhere and I mean so many women of different ages and races it was amazing to see. Once we started walking towards the rally people had their signs up in the air exercising their first amendment rights and expressing their thoughts on the newly elected President. Women had signs that read, “I am a nasty woman” which is what President Trump called Hilary during the campaign. Many had the slogan “keep your tiny hands away from my p***y” which is referring to the comment that President Trump made a sometime ago about grabbing women by their private part. Seeing all these signs and all these women made me realize that I made the right choice by attending. While waiting for the march, everyone walked around on the National mall just viewing and admiring everyone signs.  One sign(s) that really caught my eye was the faces of our famous black women who lead the civil rights movement. . Now in our minds we are thinking that one of our black sisters are carrying the signs, but to ur surprise there were four white women carrying the signs.  We thought to ourselves why are these women carrying these particular signs? We realized that they are carrying the signs because they realize how many black women have paved the way for certain things that occurred in America. As the crowd got bigger we started to get cold and hungry so we decided to stand in the line to get food. Of course in the line we met different people and we noticed how many people were really out on the national mall. While we were in line we met two women Kentucky. They came all the way from Kentucky just to be apart of this experience. As we joked about how many people attend the inguaration versus how many were at the women’s march we noticed that the time was approaching to start the march.  As the march started people were walking in many different directions some going in the middle, some going to the right and some were going to the left. We followed the crowd in the middle marching on the national mall with our signs held high in the air and chanted “HEY HEY, HO HO, DONALD TRUMP has got to GO” as loud as we could and it felt good. Once we reached the street and we approached a new crowd of people that were marching, we joined them and we started chanting with them.   I just felt so amazed and proud that I was apart of something that was history in the making. We finally made it to the train station and it was amazing to see as we walked towards the train we could still see all of the crowds of people marching, chanting with their signs way above their heads. As we approached the train station we noticed that people started to leave their signs on the ground creating a collage.  Placing our signs with the others, gave an amazing emotional feeling that provide an incredible ending to our day. As I watched all the marches across the world form with many different women, from all ethnic backgrounds and ages.  It confirmed within my spirit that what I did on Saturday 21, 2017, that was beyond amazing and we had made the right decision.  I was honored to share that expeiernce with my mother and friends.   But most importantly, I was honored to share it with all the young children that came out with their parents to witness history. We as women have to stick together and we have to remember that we control everything in the world. No matter what any man says; we hold the power. We have to continue to let our voices be heard and remember that we are just as equal as men. If you don’t stand up for anything, you will not get anything in return.                                             Here are a few of my favorite pictures from the marches all over the world….

 





Wednesday, October 26, 2016

Drake vs Kid Cudi

" You were the man on the moon, now you go through your phases"
"Life of the angry and famous"
"Rap like I know I'm the greatest and give you the tropical flavors"
"Still never been on hiatus"
"You stay xan and perked up so when  reality set in you don't gotta face it" 
" My tweets apply to who they apply, Ye, Drake, whoever. These niggas dont give a f*** about me .
And they aint f***in with me. "


So as you all know Kid Cudi did start the beef by tweeting the above tweet showing his frustrations about Kanye and Drake working together . 

Earlier this month Cudi let all his fans know that he was checking into a rehab facility for depression. Now once that information was released many artists showed their love and concern for Cudi. 

Unfortunately Drake decided to show his support by releasing  a new song dissing Cudi and his mental illness. Some are against Drake for this and some feel that Drake was right about the diss.  

Who side are you on?  

Tuesday, August 30, 2016

And the Moon Man Goes too.... Best Dressed Vma's 2016

Last night one of the biggest awards shows aired and it was full of surprises.. From Kanye West 11 min speech to his steamy video with the beautiful Teyana Taylor... to Beyonce and Blue Ivy glamour that lite up the white carpet with Queen Bey slay of artistic fashion. The VMA's white carpet provided a photogenic runaway filled with fashions.

Queen Bey
Designer:  Francesco Scognamiglo























Halsey
Designer: Yousef Al-Jasmi



















Hailey Baldwin
Designer: George Chakra





















Halle+Chloe
Designer: Rodarte




















Tinashe
Designer: Juan Carlos Obando




















Nikki Minaj
Designer: Bao Tranchi



















USA Gymnastics Team
Designer: Sherri Hill




















The winner for the night is the lovely Blue Ivy Carter. She was absolutely stunning in her $11,000 Mischka Aoki gown.


Thursday, August 25, 2016

Backpack to the Books

Parents the time is here.

Your young scholars and future leaders of tomorrow are starting their new school year. Back to school shopping is in full effect and we have to make sure they have all of their supplies and fashionable items. The main item that is going to stand out the most for students is there backpack. The backpack is the most signature item because it shows the kids personality. If you are looking for ideas for your kids for back pack options I have you covered. 


                                       5.     Shining Cool Galaxy Traveling College Backpack 
                                                                      Price: $35.99
                                                                http://www.bygoods.com
   
    


                                                       4.       Gold Metallic Backpack 
                                                                          Price: $24.99
                                                               http://www.fashionangels.com



3.  Print Junior Backpack 
Price: $39.95
    http://www.gap.com
2.          Asos Metallic Camo Backpack 
       Price: $48.37
         www.asos.com

Every little girl wants this particular backpack... They love this character and she is very fashionable.. 
Frozen/ Elsa Backpack 
Price: $12.99
www.Macys.com







Wednesday, August 10, 2016

Welcome Back to the 90's....

If your mom or dad were fashion icons back in the day; I am sure you can go into their closets and pick out something that will pass the fashion test for this generation. 

 This year new accessory has a big impact on fashion! Well at least in my opinion. Everyone loves a good necklace and this particular necklace is one that just about everyone can appreciate it. Evolving from the 1990’s to 2016, let’s give a warm round of applause for the Choker necklace.

Now some may say what is a choker necklace? Or how can we define the choker necklace?  

The Choker Necklace is define as a close-fitting necklace worn around the neck. Chokers can be made of a variety of materials, including velvet, plastic, beads, leather, metal, such as silver, gold or platinum, etc. They can be adorned in a variety of ways, including with sequins, studs, or a pendant.

Now I know you are wondering where can you purchased this new accessory and how much should I be willing to spend. Some may go down the cheap route which is to make your own chokers which is great, unique and different. Some may not have the creative juice and they would like to go and purchase them.   That is when I come into play and I can provide you with the top places to purchase this wonderful piece. 



   
Asos Basic Velvet Choker
Price: $8.50
www.asos.com

Rock N Rose Hannali Choker
Price: 78.00
www.asos.com

Gothic Victorian Crystal Tassel Tattoo Choker
Price: $ 1.70-$2.24
www.aliexpress.com
Lace Up Floral Choker
Price: $3.90
www. Forever21.com
 Lady Portrait Pendant
Price: $3.95
www.yoins.com






Wednesday, August 3, 2016

What is Social Media?????

What would we do if there was no social media? 

Who invented this thing called Social media? 

Why do we need social media? 

Is social media a distraction in life? 

Is social media a problem within relationships? 

Does social media define you as a person? 

Could you live without social media?